NLP coaching that helps young people think clearly and lead with intention
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) coaching for children, teens and young adults aged 5–25, and for the parents who support them, with Lara Khneisser, certified New Generation NLP practitioner and founder of AïeLEAD.
Understanding how we think, feel and respond
NLP explores the link between the way we think (neuro), the words we use (linguistic) and the patterns we repeat in everyday life (programming). It offers practical tools to notice unhelpful habits of thought and replace them with ones that support confidence, focus and calm.
New Generation NLP is a modern, person-centred approach. It works with each young person’s own experiences, values and goals rather than a fixed script, so every session feels relevant and respectful.
At AïeLEAD, NLP coaching sits alongside our SOI cognitive skills programmes and emotional and mental wellbeing coaching, so we can support both how a young person learns and how they feel about learning.
Practical tools for everyday challenges
Confidence and self-belief
Recognise strengths, quieten the inner critic and build a steadier sense of “I can”.
Calmer exams and everyday pressure
Simple techniques to manage worry before tests, presentations and new situations.
Motivation and clear goals
Turn big hopes into small, achievable steps, and stay motivated along the way.
Communication and relationships
Express thoughts and feelings clearly with family, friends and teachers.
Support at every stage
Not sure whether NLP coaching is the right fit? We start with a relaxed conversation to understand your child’s needs, and we will always recommend the support that suits them best, whether that is NLP coaching, SOI cognitive skills training, wellbeing coaching or tutoring.
A gentle, step-by-step process
1. Introductory conversation
A short, no-pressure chat with you and your child to understand what is happening and what you would like to change.
2. Understanding goals
Together we agree a few clear, realistic goals that matter to the young person.
3. Personalised NLP sessions
One-to-one sessions, online or in person in St Margaret’s, London, using techniques matched to each young person.
4. Review and next steps
We review progress regularly with you and adapt the support so it keeps working.
Lara Khneisser
Lara is the founder of AïeLEAD, a former school principal and SEN teacher with more than 20 years in education, a certified Structure of Intellect (SOI) learning specialist and a certified New Generation NLP practitioner.
Her aim is simple: to help young people understand themselves, develop their abilities and move forward with intention.
NLP coaching FAQs
What is New Generation NLP?
New Generation NLP is a modern, person-centred approach to Neuro-Linguistic Programming. It focuses on each person’s own experiences and goals, using practical tools to build confidence, focus and positive habits of thought.
What ages do you work with?
We work with children, teens and young adults aged 5–25. For younger children, parents are involved so that new strategies can be supported at home.
Are sessions online or in person?
Both. Sessions can take place online or in person in St Margaret’s, London, whichever suits your family best.
Is NLP coaching a replacement for therapy or medical support?
No. NLP coaching is a supportive, goal-focused approach. It does not replace medical, psychological or therapeutic care. If we feel another type of support would help, we will always say so.
How do we get started?
Book an introductory conversation. We will talk through your child’s needs and suggest the best next step.
Ready to take the first step?
Let’s talk about how NLP coaching could help your child feel more confident and in control.